tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2322140320680326931.post4030774939295256599..comments2023-11-02T09:33:26.807-05:00Comments on Baby Love Slings: Housing WoesFarrahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09007898882390399053noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2322140320680326931.post-12440946627559603772010-04-01T21:51:59.522-05:002010-04-01T21:51:59.522-05:00I share the contentment issue, as I know you know....I share the contentment issue, as I know you know. I have learned two things recently that may or may not help. #1 - God WILL meet your needs and abundantly bless you but he can't if you're busy fretting over it and trying to make it happen on your own. #2 - If things you're trying aren't working out, it's likely because they're not meant to. <br /><br />Either way, I feel your pain, girl! hUGS TO YOU!Mindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16726796954968328204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2322140320680326931.post-84712201750575274382010-03-29T14:06:59.231-05:002010-03-29T14:06:59.231-05:00I hear you. Although our house is a bit bigger th...I hear you. Although our house is a bit bigger than yours for that and other reasons, we are wanting to move too. If the housing market were normal, our house would be on the market w/in the next 3 months probably-but as it is now our sights are set on putting it up in 24 months. Yeah, 2 years. When we will probably have another baby and even less space than we do now. So what I do now is what you said-be content. If you are in a place to rent and have your house rented, then I say go for it-if that situation works financially for you. It does not work for us to financially put our house on the market for another 2 years (this all rides on the housing market going back up to normal in that time and us being able to break even on selling our house-if we sold now we'd lose at least 25K). Since there isnt' a way for us to move as soon as I want, I choose to be content. Of course discontentment creeps up-sometimes daily-but i remind myself that I have a house, I have healthy children, my husband makes enough for me to stay home, we eat w/o fear of not every single day...we are more blessed than most people in the world-who am I to complain because I don't have another 500 or 1000 extra square feet? this is what I tell myself...BUT if we were in a place to move, I would activly be looking and fretting. So I think it depends on you-if you can move somewhere else, then search for that and be okay w/ that process of wanting. If you can't move then be okay with that and remind yourself of the blessings and rest in the knowledge that God has placed you in this very moment and space in time for a reason....Atwood-Family of FIVEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08787773315886171839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2322140320680326931.post-69754949210387155482010-03-29T09:31:54.149-05:002010-03-29T09:31:54.149-05:00Our motivation was different (i.e. we were relocat...Our motivation was different (i.e. we were relocated for my husband's job), but I can tell you the result of more room, a yard, etc.<br /><br />We were extremely blessed to sell our house in Cincinnati quickly (after putting a lot of work into it) and not get completely hosed on the sale.<br /><br />We found an amazing house in KC and were able to afford it due to the current market. We are finally fencing this week in anticipation of better weather. The kids and dog finally have a yard. We have room to breathe and enough space that even with kiddo #3 on the way I could easily see our kids leaving for college from this house.<br /><br />While I don't enjoy the extra house to clean (I really hate housecleaning and it is nearly impossible to keep it clean with little ones, a big dog, a husband, etc.), the change has been amazing. I have found an enjoyment of cooking I didn't have before now that I have a kitchen more than one person can stand in (and a traffic flow that allows me to still be involved with what the kids are doing while I am cooking). We spend more time outside because we have a yard to play in. We tolerated winter cooped up inside much easier because we had room to spread out (and a playroom to put a fold-up slide in for some physical activity).<br /><br />As you pointed out, all of these things are a result of being blessed beyond measure. We would have been absolutely happy and just as blessed in our smaller home. Our happiness is not dependent upon material things like a bigger house or a yard. Many things have become easier with more room, but you will find issues with whatever you have (like too much house to clean, maintain, furnish, etc.).<br /><br />I too have a problem with contentment - there is always something I would like to have or do. As a result of moving so much growing up I periodically get the itch to make a change. Luckily I can often satisfy the need by rearranging some furniture, painting a room, exploring a new part of the city, or something like that.<br /><br />Sorry this almost turned into its own blog post! Just talk it over with your hubby, pray about it, and follow your heart. While it may not be the easiest route to take, you will do it with the confidence that you are both on board and have sought God's will in the matter.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17729861398591901681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2322140320680326931.post-36635421776019994622010-03-29T08:24:58.755-05:002010-03-29T08:24:58.755-05:00Well, I can only tell you about my personal situat...Well, I can only tell you about my personal situation, housing-wise. My husband is a HUGE collector of stuff. Not so bad as the people on Hoarders, but the man has a huge collection of books, CDs, DVDs, video games, board games, etc., etc., etc. When we first moved to Illinois we were renting a tiny little two-bedroom cottage, and there were just piles of clutter everywhere. It really took a toll on my mental health. So, for that reason, I do not think that wanting a bigger place for your family is greedy or selfish.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01683583702107105140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2322140320680326931.post-62692533914896487982010-03-29T08:08:46.530-05:002010-03-29T08:08:46.530-05:00You took the words right out of my mouth - I could...You took the words right out of my mouth - I could have written the exact same thing! We'll see what happens, I guess...Catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07316677018586769316noreply@blogger.com