tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2322140320680326931.post4989678345498621144..comments2023-11-02T09:33:26.807-05:00Comments on Baby Love Slings: Am I unintentionally weaning?Farrahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09007898882390399053noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2322140320680326931.post-17812909302401828652009-11-06T22:13:58.249-06:002009-11-06T22:13:58.249-06:00Hiya girl. I really felt this post because nursing...Hiya girl. I really felt this post because nursing is near and dear to my heart. It's just so very personal. I do think that if you don't pump for 4 days the quality of the milk will change and Caden may or may not like it. I agree with Two Square Meals, either way Caden will be just fine. Good luck to you!<br /><br />BTW I am back online in the house now, so please come by when you can!<br /><br />Hugs<br />Melinda<br /><br />PS Loving the sling!!Mindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16726796954968328204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2322140320680326931.post-75485903661502276712009-11-01T12:44:52.204-06:002009-11-01T12:44:52.204-06:00Well, it seems you have received some great advice...Well, it seems you have received some great advice from the previous 3 comments and I don't know if I have much more to add. <br /><br />My own experience was as Atwood Family of 4 indicated - for almost a full year after weaning my son, I could still express some milk, so I would be inclined to believe that after only 4 days, your milk production will come back without too much trouble. <br /><br />I think you just do what feels best and don't worry too much about it... it will work out fine. Have fun away with your Hubby!Shannon @ Lullaby Baby Carriershttp://www.lullabybabycarriers.com/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2322140320680326931.post-15029433842055994312009-11-01T08:22:46.684-06:002009-11-01T08:22:46.684-06:00I think it could really go either way. I think if...I think it could really go either way. I think if you pump or not, either way you might lose the milk supply you might not. (So even if you pump you may lose it, if you don't you may not and vice versa.) same for Caden. He may be done w/ no nursing for 4 days he may not. As a lactaction counselor (did you know I am certified in that)? one of the things we learned was this mysterious stage of nursing that comes w/ toddlerhood-after 12 months or so of nursing. It is where your body starts to make milk on demand rather than supply and demand. So you the therory is you have a finiky toddler who one day needs lots of comfort and nurses 4x the next day is mr. independent nurses 1x the next day 5x the next day none. And instead of making more or less milk each day-like you would have w/ a newborn-your body starts to make it on demand. So it will have milk when he nurses but on the same token you will not get engorged if he doesn't. so basically, while, personally 4 days is a lot not to nurse, there is a chance you would still have milk left for Caden if he wants to nurse when you get back. (Also, did you have a chance to notice that months after L weaned you could still have milk? When A weaned, for an entire year after, if i tried to hand express, i could still get drops of milk.) this is normal and supports the on demand therory. Good luck either way and like the others have said, do what feels best and makes the most sense for you, knowing either way you choose it may not matter in the end.Atwood-Family of FIVEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08787773315886171839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2322140320680326931.post-53031876459941258612009-10-31T18:25:59.083-05:002009-10-31T18:25:59.083-05:00I agree with everything TwoSquareMeals said. Of co...I agree with everything TwoSquareMeals said. Of course, both my guys just up and stopped nursing one day, so I know nothing about weaning/trying to stop, etc... I just know that I was heart broken when they just quit w/ no warning.<br /><br />I know you're enjoying your weekend, either way, b/c those Gators just beat the snot out of GA, lol :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13893351478019815787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2322140320680326931.post-49170517773485149662009-10-31T14:19:47.112-05:002009-10-31T14:19:47.112-05:00I have no idea what does and does not work, since ...I have no idea what does and does not work, since I have never even pumped, but my response assumes that pumping works to keep up supply.<br /><br />I would say don't stress about it and just do what seems best to you. If the thought of weaning really makes you sad, then pump. If you only feel bad about it because you are feeling guilty, don't let that decide for you. Be free not to pump, enjoy your time away, and return home to find new ways to connect with Caden. If you think Caden really still needs to nurse, then try pumping a couple of times a day just to keep the supply up. If you have less milk, this is a great way to start the weaning process.<br /><br />Whatever you do, you are not going to ruin your child's future or your relationship with him or your value as a mommy. I know moms can give others a guilt trip about the whole nursing thing, but it is one little piece of a very big picture of motherhood.<br /><br />So be free to do what works best for you and enjoy your time away. And your ballgame!TwoSquareMealshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01000292109449832461noreply@blogger.com